Once upon a time in a galaxy closer to Western Europe, I was a foreign exchange student in France, living with a host family in some burb just outside Versailles. My ability to speak French was passable, but I could understand just about everything they said to me. I’ve always suspected that maybe that was the reason why I never found French people to be as rude as we in America would like to believe.
I heard the same criticism about Russians over the past several years, but for whatever reasons (perhaps the new Cold War that some people would like to pretend we’re in), it has intensified recently. Despite the talk, though, I found Russians to be helpful. I was able to ask them questions if I needed to – like why can’t I get to Lenin’s Mausoleum on the day of Medvedev’s inauguration. Not once did I sense any hostility. Again, my command of Russian was passable (although noticeably worse than my French at the time of that trip).
Maybe it’s other cultures’ way of saying we should be more open to non-Americana (or whatever the best way to phrase that would be). Or, in the case of Russia, maybe it’s just because it was too damn cold that morning to make a stink. It was funny watching the “normal” population bundled up in jackets and coats while a few brazen devochka wore their mini skirts because in the new Russia, if you’ve got it, flaunt it. Besides, it wasn’t sub-zero or anything. Just quite chilly.

Russians are absolutely rude and that opinion is not coming from an outside perspective or from a single encounter with a Russian but from years of living in Moscow and interacting with all segments of the population. I HAVE NEVER MET A SINGLE KIND RUSSIAN WHILE LIVING THERE OR GOING BACK TO VISIT. The police are corrupted to the core, the legal system is plagued by bribery…those in power defecate on the very idea of justice. No one has an inkling of an idea of the concept of customer service or politeness and if you are fortunate enough to survive your time there before coming to the United States I swear to you you will kiss the ground when you arrive here…you will truly begin to appreciate FREEDOM, EQUALITY, JUSTICE, PEACE, KINDNESS, and COMMON COURTESY that Americans are so used to in everyday life that straying away from it would be overtly obvious. I have met 3 Russians in my life that have been kind out of which only 1 Russian that was truly a good person and all of them were in the United States…I have met NO Russian during my 5 years in Russia that ever smiled at me or showed any compassion. I would rather die than ever go to that country again…every single person starting right off the bat with the stewardesses from Aeroflot Airlines to the hounds working at Sheremiteva airport and to the rest of the Russian population look at foreigners, AND ESPECIALLY MINORITIES, with cold stares like daggers poised and ready to strike. The Russian Federation and its population constitute the epitome of racism and hatred. I have never said anything bad about anyone…even if they have done me serious harm but this is extraordinary…it is beyond understanding how a large population can be so vicious. I don’t want to compare them to the Nazis because I was not around in 1941 but from what I’ve read about them and their behavior…the way Russians act today is exactly how Nazis acted before they began to force Jews to place the Star of David on their belonging, businesses, and on their arms. After my father experienced the egregious violations of his civil rights I began to truly see how African-Americans felt before 1964 and how the Jews felt when the Nazis first started to express racism on a massive scale. Hearing news of your fathers unlawful arrest, unlawful detainment, and unlawful beating by government police for simply being a minority and walking on the sidewalk can change the way any man sees the world.
While, of course, everyone’s experience is unique, I find your generalizations of Russians harsh. Yes, they do have a well-deserved reputation for looking down on minorities, but I’ve seen my fair share of Russians that have been kind to non-Europeans. I also don’t know how appropriate it is to condemn a nationality for doing the same to others, but that’s just my unasked for two cents.
I have to agree with Andrea. I had this 5 year interest in Russia and Russian culture, and worked there for a while. I married a Russian woman. Here are some of the things I observed:
It is considered clever to rip someone off.
The end justifies the means.
Kindness is confused with weakness.
Lying and convoluted logic are acceptable to get what you want.
There are good people in Russia, but generally…
Russians don’t know any better. They can’t help it. They are like abused children who think that the behavior they learned in their abnormal home is normal. They are damaged. It is a brutal society. Only survival matters. It is the polar opposite of Christianity.
Here are some selected links to support my viewpoint.
http://www.kyivpost.com/opinion/op_ed/35354
http://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/worldnews/1574068/Ski-resorts-set-quotas-for-‘rude’-Russians.html
I’ll never go back to Russia, or ever knowingly have any dealings with another Russian.